tip for life

 hi welcome back 

its summer in India 

but can you imagine it had rained hear ya it was horrible the last week i was hoping if someone would give me an Ice cream 

anyways back to the topic 

hi

today i am going to give you this tips which may be helpful for you

it might even hurt you for a while but trust me you will get results immediately

the tip is

be on your own

see you should be importent your your self like you don't need someone with you like look thin happens in hydrabadi schools girls go to washrooms to gather to class to gather even if one girl wants to go to a teacher she needs someone to go with and thats not good this is what makes you dependent on some one(even boys do it if i talk about girls it dose not mean i am not focusing in boys even they do )  ya so like that you feel alone when they are not there and what happens if they leave you for ever (ya u are not going to have them when you grow up)i am nut meaning that don't have friends let friends find you 

instead of calling them out let them call you out like that you can also test your friends you can hang out with friends but also live on your own go alone to complete your task 

and you know what this makes you seem importent people think that o my god see seems to be the person how is so productive and they come to to you

and you can also feel proud that i don't need support 

this also help you to be productive in life and also independent

and you be importent😏

one more thing

if they come to you then ok if they don't interrupt you u u also don't interrupt them

because some people are too quick to give a gesture about someone in fact it could be everyone

it is better if you focus on your work like for me its my studies and this blog which makes me busy away from the loneliness and with this you may have understood that i am telling this with my personal experience ya i used to just feel like crying but i did not cry in fact i thought of different ways to overcome this and boom now i am happy i just know many people

so basically this is what i do😎

when my friends just don't talk to me or just don't tell me what they where talking about i understand that they don't need me (ya this hurts)and then i leave then too like they ask me things or ask about some stuf an then i just give them a simple but a little harsh reply not to make them realise i say it in a simple way so that they could not think that i am harsh but you know what many feel but they don't say and this is what gives me happiness and then i just try to busy myself like trying to answer mam's qusetions or something or just do my work and later on when they notice that i am not much bothering much they come back(this happened with my last year friend)but with this sometimes i become wrong as they still think about me but i just thought a little too much (this happened this year just yesterday)and i feel sorry for that

ya why i think about these all so much because of my past experiences

but these experiences made ma stronger

and i am now pretty much happier how i an now

anyways thats all for today

until next time 

bye💕